Erotic Hypnotherapist
Creative, Erotic Hypnotherapy Solutions for Swingers, Nudists, and BDSM Enthusiasts
Do you need help with your sex life, but are afraid of being judged by a therapist for your lifestyle choices?
Are you having issues with sexual performance or enjoyment, and conventional medicine and traditional therapy doesn't seem to have the answer?
Are you looking for a therapist who actually has real world experience with nudism, swinging, kink, polyamory, and/or BDSM?
If you answered "YES" to any of the above questions, I just might be able to help you.
Welcome! If you're looking for a swinger, nudist, and/or BDSM-friendly hypnotherapist, you found her! Using my unique blend of hypnosis, hypnotherapy, and lifestyle coaching, I help my clients get the most out of their sexual experiences without shame and guilt. Whether you have a kink or fetish that is out of control and needs to be scaled back, a sexual performance issue that needs ramping up, or a past trauma that is getting in the way of your sexual enjoyment, Traci A. Kanaan can help!
Unlike many hypnotists and hypnotherapists who say they are "sex positive" because they took some classes, Traci has real-world experience and a passion for nudism, swinging, and BDSM. She's been involved in the nudist, swinging, and BDSM communities since 2009. Traci understands that you view, live, and breathe in this world differently. She wants you to live your best sexual life, shame & guilt-free, by offering creative, caring, and compassionate solutions to swinging, nudist, and BDSM issues other therapists just don't understand.
Clients and Issues I’ve Worked With
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Confidence Issues In The Swinging Lifestyle
A male client wanted to explore the swinging lifestyle, but didn't have the confidence to ask other women to have sex with him. I helped him overcome his confidence, so much that when I bumped into him at a club a few years later, he asked me out! (I respectfully declined because of our professional relationship, but the next lady he asked took him up on his offer!)
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Erectile Dysfunction
One of my clients was experiencing issues with sexual performance, due to an “out of control” fetish, and extremely high self-expectations in the bedroom. I worked with the client to find out where the fetish came from so he could make peace with it. I also helped him balance the expectations he had of himself in the bedroom, so he could shift his focus to “prolonged sexual enjoyment” instead of “results.”
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Not Being Able to Swallow Semen
Mental Blow-Job Block! I had a client who was happily married for 20+ years, but was not able to "swallow." I discovered that she had a medical issue with her throat as a child, which was causing the ab-reaction to swallowing. I helped her through the trauma of the medical issue, then re-programmed her to imagine her husband was a supplier of her favorite beverage.
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Helping Swingers Enjoy The Lifestyle
Help With Condoms and New Partners. My client had been monogamous for 35 years. He wanted to try swinging with his wife but had all kinds of issues "performing" with a new partner while using a condom, with other people in the same room. I hypnotized him so he could enjoy protected sex, with a new partner, in private or in a playroom.
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Past Domestic Violence
Spousal Abuse While Pregnant. One of my clients was abused by her husband while she was pregnant 20+ years ago. I helped her work through the abuse so she was no longer triggered by the memory of it, and helped her find peace with what she experienced. I also helped her re-connect with the son that she was carrying when the abuse happened, ultimately strengthening their relationship.
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Kink & Fetish
Adult Baby Diaper Lovers. I had a client with an adult baby diaper fetish, and wanted to lose weight. I hypnotized him to tie his baby fetish with his desire to lose weight, by giving him suggestions to eat baby- sized meals and drink his water out of a baby bottle. I also gave him suggestions on how to experience a mother's love more fully and completely.
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Master/Slave Relationships
I had a client who loved worshipping his wife and wanted to be a slave to her 24/7. After a few weeks, they'd have a fight and wouldn't have sex for months at a time. Using my experience as a lifestyle coach, I helped them lower their expectations and put time limits on their sessions. I also put together 2 hypnosis recordings for him in his native language to help him maintain his slave mindset.
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Sexual Trauma, Phantom Vaginal Pain
One of my clients experienced severe abdominal pain when she had sex. She had spend thousands of dollars on X-rays, MRI's, and multiple doctors, which found nothing physically wrong with her. In our session, I discovered she had been raped multiple times as a child. I worked through each of the bad memories until they were "clear," so she could experience sex without pain.
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Guilt & Shame
Gay Leather Lifestyle Enjoyment. I had a client who really wanted to enjoy the gay leather lifestyle. He would sign up and pay to go to an event, but then he'd end up staying home due to the guilt and shame he felt, and out of fear someone hew knew would find out. Through hypnotherapy, we discovered the internal conflict he had with always being responsible, and helped him work through it.
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Hypno-Slave Reprogramming
Reversing "Permanent" Hypnotic Suggestions
A "slave" client wanted me to "un-do" some hypnotic suggestions a former "Master/Owner" had given her. He had created multiple suggestions beholding her only to him, and then they broke up. I un-did his programming, allowed her to create new triggers, which she could share with whomever she chooses. -
Coping With An Abortion, Interracial Relationship
I had a client who was in an interracial relationship and got pregnant. Her racist family pushed her to get an abortion, rather than risk the experiment of having a "mixed child" in their family. The father of her baby was killed in a war shortly after, which made the loss of her child even more traumatic for her. I worked with my client to mentally repair the relationship with the baby, the baby's father, and her family.
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Post Hypnotic Suggestion Reversal
One of my highly suggestible clients was given a post hypnotic suggestion by a Hypno Femme Domme that he would not be able to get hard with another woman in the event they ever broke up. They broke up, and a few months later he was in a new relationship and figured out what she had done. I was able to get past her post-hypnotic suggestion, gave him a new one that he could assign to his new partner, and then gave him a multi-orgasmic trigger.
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Jealousy, Polyamorous Relationships
One of my clients enjoyed threesomes, however, his partner would get very jealous. I worked with "him" on being able to get past "the jealous look" he got from his partner, and I worked with "her" to overcome self-esteem issues that began in childhood.
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Sexual Abuse & Torture
Making Peace With An Abuser. One of my clients was sexually abused by an authority figure at school, then was subjected to watching disturbing acts of violence "so she'd keep quiet." The memories came out 15 years later. I helped the client make peace with her memories, allowing her to make peace with all those affected including herself.
What Traci’s Clients Say…
As you can imagine, I get some fucked up requests
Before reaching out to me, please inform yourself of the types of sessions I do not do.
I am a Professional, Certified Hypnotist and Hypnotherapist.
I'm a member of several professional organizations.
I teach other hypnotists and therapists how to do what I do.
I do not accept some sessions because they would either jeopardize my standing in the professional Hypnosis community, don't interest me, they're illegal, and/or would bore the living fuck out of me.
Due to the unique nature of what I do, anyone seeking my Erotic Hypnotherapy / Sex Hypnotherapy inquiries must go meet with me for a consultation before being accepted as a client.
There is a non-refundable charge for the 60-minute consultation. Should we choose to work with each other, you can apply the fee toward your sessions.
Sessions I do not accept…
I do not do any session that involves nudity, masturbation, or sex acts.
I do not do any Femme Domme Hypnosis sessions where I am your Mistress, Dominant, or Top.
I do not do any session where I am your submissive, slave, or bottom.
I do not do sessions where I hypnotize you to fall in love with me.
I do not do sessions involving any "hypnotic amnesia," where you're made to forget about someone or something that happened to you.
I do not do free sessions in exchange for "service."
I do not do actual or imagined sessions that involve fantasy role-play with children and animals.
I do not do sessions that involve harm, whether it be temporary or permanent, to yourself, other people, children, and/or animals.
I do not do sessions that involve incest, even if everyone is of legal age.
I do not do sessions that involve violence, temporary or permanent mutilation, or physical damage to yourself, other people, children, and/or animals.
I do not do sessions that involve self-mutilation and/or suffocation or any other type of session that could bring you or someone else to the brink of death.
I do not do sessions that involve playing with or ingesting blood, urine, and/or poop, real or imagined.
I do not do sessions where I hypnotize people to give myself or others money on command, aka financial domination.
I do not do sessions where you are programmed to completely give up your control and decision-making abilities to me or anyone else.
I do not hypnotize owned slaves or submissives in a D/s for anything BDSM related unless I have personally interviewed AND obtained written consent from their Owner(s).
I do not do sessions teaching you how to make your wife/spouse/partner fall in love with you.
I do not do any session where I am asked to avoid practicing SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), and PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink).
To summarize...
if you have a legitimate erotic issue you'd like to work on to become the next best version of yourself, I will consider taking on your case. If you are looking for someone to role-play with or watch you jerk off, you will not be my client.
Clients who try to "switch gears" mid-session will be automatically terminated without a refund.