Erotic Hypnotherapist

Creative, Erotic Hypnotherapy Solutions for Swingers, Nudists, and BDSM Enthusiasts

Do you need help with your sex life, but are afraid of being judged by a therapist for your lifestyle choices?

Are you having issues with sexual performance or enjoyment, and conventional medicine and traditional therapy doesn't seem to have the answer?

Are you looking for a therapist who actually has real world experience with nudism, swinging, kink, polyamory, and/or BDSM?

 If you answered "YES" to any of the above questions, I just might be able to help you.

Welcome!  If you're looking for a swinger, nudist, and/or BDSM-friendly hypnotherapist, you found her!  Using my unique blend of hypnosis, hypnotherapy, and lifestyle coaching, I help my clients get the most out of their sexual experiences without shame and guilt.  Whether you have a kink or fetish that is out of control and needs to be scaled back, a sexual performance issue that needs ramping up, or a past trauma that is getting in the way of your sexual enjoyment, Traci A. Kanaan can help!

​Unlike many hypnotists and hypnotherapists who say they are "sex positive" because they took some classes, Traci has real-world experience and a passion for nudism, swinging, and BDSM.  She's been involved in the nudist, swinging, and BDSM communities since 2009.  Traci understands that you view, live, and breathe in this world differently.  She wants you to live your best sexual life, shame & guilt-free, by offering creative, caring, and compassionate solutions to swinging, nudist, and BDSM issues other therapists just don't understand.

Clients and Issues I’ve Worked With

  • Confidence Issues In The Swinging Lifestyle

    A male client wanted to explore the swinging lifestyle, but didn't have the confidence to ask other women to have sex with him. I helped him overcome his confidence, so much that when I bumped into him at a club a few years later, he asked me out! (I respectfully declined because of our professional relationship, but the next lady he asked took him up on his offer!)

  • Erectile Dysfunction

    One of my clients was experiencing issues with sexual performance, due to an “out of control” fetish, and extremely high self-expectations in the bedroom. I worked with the client to find out where the fetish came from so he could make peace with it. I also helped him balance the expectations he had of himself in the bedroom, so he could shift his focus to “prolonged sexual enjoyment” instead of “results.”

  • Not Being Able to Swallow Semen

    Mental Blow-Job Block! I had a client who was happily married for 20+ years, but was not able to "swallow." I discovered that she had a medical issue with her throat as a child, which was causing the ab-reaction to swallowing. I helped her through the trauma of the medical issue, then re-programmed her to imagine her husband was a supplier of her favorite beverage.

  • Helping Swingers Enjoy The Lifestyle

    Help With Condoms and New Partners. My client had been monogamous for 35 years. He wanted to try swinging with his wife but had all kinds of issues "performing" with a new partner while using a condom, with other people in the same room. I hypnotized him so he could enjoy protected sex, with a new partner, in private or in a playroom.

  • Past Domestic Violence

    Spousal Abuse While Pregnant. One of my clients was abused by her husband while she was pregnant 20+ years ago. I helped her work through the abuse so she was no longer triggered by the memory of it, and helped her find peace with what she experienced. I also helped her re-connect with the son that she was carrying when the abuse happened, ultimately strengthening their relationship.

  • Kink & Fetish

    Adult Baby Diaper Lovers. I had a client with an adult baby diaper fetish, and wanted to lose weight. I hypnotized him to tie his baby fetish with his desire to lose weight, by giving him suggestions to eat baby- sized meals and drink his water out of a baby bottle. I also gave him suggestions on how to experience a mother's love more fully and completely.

  • Master/Slave Relationships

    I had a client who loved worshipping his wife and wanted to be a slave to her 24/7. After a few weeks, they'd have a fight and wouldn't have sex for months at a time. Using my experience as a lifestyle coach, I helped them lower their expectations and put time limits on their sessions. I also put together 2 hypnosis recordings for him in his native language to help him maintain his slave mindset.

  • Sexual Trauma, Phantom Vaginal Pain

    One of my clients experienced severe abdominal pain when she had sex. She had spend thousands of dollars on X-rays, MRI's, and multiple doctors, which found nothing physically wrong with her. In our session, I discovered she had been raped multiple times as a child. I worked through each of the bad memories until they were "clear," so she could experience sex without pain.

  • Guilt & Shame

    Gay Leather Lifestyle Enjoyment. I had a client who really wanted to enjoy the gay leather lifestyle. He would sign up and pay to go to an event, but then he'd end up staying home due to the guilt and shame he felt, and out of fear someone hew knew would find out. Through hypnotherapy, we discovered the internal conflict he had with always being responsible, and helped him work through it.

  • Hypno-Slave Reprogramming

    Reversing "Permanent" Hypnotic Suggestions
    A "slave" client wanted me to "un-do" some hypnotic suggestions a former "Master/Owner" had given her. He had created multiple suggestions beholding her only to him, and then they broke up. I un-did his programming, allowed her to create new triggers, which she could share with whomever she chooses.

  • Coping With An Abortion, Interracial Relationship

    I had a client who was in an interracial relationship and got pregnant. Her racist family pushed her to get an abortion, rather than risk the experiment of having a "mixed child" in their family. The father of her baby was killed in a war shortly after, which made the loss of her child even more traumatic for her. I worked with my client to mentally repair the relationship with the baby, the baby's father, and her family.

  • Post Hypnotic Suggestion Reversal

    One of my highly suggestible clients was given a post hypnotic suggestion by a Hypno Femme Domme that he would not be able to get hard with another woman in the event they ever broke up. They broke up, and a few months later he was in a new relationship and figured out what she had done. I was able to get past her post-hypnotic suggestion, gave him a new one that he could assign to his new partner, and then gave him a multi-orgasmic trigger.

  • Jealousy, Polyamorous Relationships

    One of my clients enjoyed threesomes, however, his partner would get very jealous. I worked with "him" on being able to get past "the jealous look" he got from his partner, and I worked with "her" to overcome self-esteem issues that began in childhood.

  • Sexual Abuse & Torture

    Making Peace With An Abuser. One of my clients was sexually abused by an authority figure at school, then was subjected to watching disturbing acts of violence "so she'd keep quiet." The memories came out 15 years later. I helped the client make peace with her memories, allowing her to make peace with all those affected including herself.

What Traci’s Clients Say…

  • I visited Traci because I admired the work she is doing and I felt like I was in a dark place. After sharing some experiences I had in life, Traci was able to make connections of a common pattern of behavior that I was unable to see. She made me aware of all my negative self talk and helped me begin to change that internal dialogue. The authenticity, the connection, the humor...Traci made me feel totally at peace and accepted and created this safe space with amazing energy.

  • My time with wings was exceptional. I love it when I find a person who is passionate about her career of helping others; she's a great mentor. I wanted to be a better version of myself, so I could reach my optimum best. Traci is different than most. She takes a soothing, no nonsense approach to situations with a great deal of professionalism and laughter to ease the stress. She was highly recommended by a friend and she did not disappoint. Previous professionals left me empty and searching for direction. Traci has a clear direction of where her client needs to go as they sit down.

  • My experience with Wings Hypnosis was everything I hoped it would be. I got psychologically stuck in a situation where I had to move homes but I was paralyzed and could not make the decision. After a session with Wings, moving seemed like the logical, easy thing to do. I'd been working with my therapist for ages on this problem and it didn't seem to get any easier. After the hypnosis session, it wasn't a problem anymore! Whatever your problem, Wings can surely help you.

  • Perfect timing to have been enlightened by Wings Hypnosis. Traci is absolutely magical. She allowed me to voice personal issues which I have not been able to share with others. She helped me see that some of the roles I have been made to play are not necessarily in my nature. Instead of running away from those roles, she has helped me to better handle the difficulties which come with them. Since the "Come Alive and Thrive" total trance-formation session I have been regularly using the tools she gave me and have been stronger than ever when in the business mode. In other modes, I am finding ways to release which brings much more relief and reduced tension. I feel myself, my true me, being restored. Most days and some nights I go through the trance session in my head and continue to clear out more troubles. The one thing I have not figured out is why ever since my session, I have had the Wizard of Oz songs playing in my head as I traverse through work days. Got caught a couple times humming "If I only had a brain." when dealing with a co-worker. I claimed happy song but could not help but laugh at the irony of the moment. I am finding references to the Wizard of Oz everywhere. Next session topic to explore. :)

  • Thank you for helping lead me to where my heart and joy has been blocked for so long and realizing I can have everyting I've always wanted. I finally stopped depending on others for what I wanted and it's finally happening. I've been pushing all the love I have inside of me to the wrong people and I would consistently get disappointed with when all along it's been with the ones who I don't share the same vibrational energy with even though it was family. I will find the right people to accept my love. I finally let go of my past and the universe has been sending me messages and new opportunities. You're an earth angel. Namaste.

  • “I came to Traci red faced and embarrassed. She made me feel very comfortable, welcomed and most importantly she did not talk down to me. After a few short sessions I feel much more accepting of who I am.  Never have I been so open and yet so accepted.  That in itself is amazing.”

  • “Traci has done more for me in 6-8 hours worth of hypnotherapy sessions than years of traditional therapy and medication has ever done. She put things in terms that made it possible for me to see my problems and deal with them instead of just talking me in circles and getting nowhere. She has an actual interest in seeing you get better and do better for yourself.”

  • “Traci is a phenomenal, learned, kind, intuitive and competent counselor, and her innate talent for wisely listening and then helping people through stress cannot be matched. Trust her, hire her, and watch your life change for the better.  No other counselor, doctor, or friend has been able to help as Traci did- her ability to quickly identify and solve issues is nothing short of miraculous.  The comfort of healing went beyond my expectations- fear not, take a leap, and you will land gently in the arms of a compassionate and competent woman who will guide you toward hope with her incandescent spirit, and a sincere concern to help you heal all issues.”

  • “Wonderful experience. I had my doubts about hypnosis, but was surprised at the outcome.  I felt better and my listlessness and mindset were improved and have made progress on my weight loss goals.  I came to Wings looking for a different way to motivate myself towards some lifestyle changes brought on by my disability.  Traci gave me some tailored suggestions to help me find the motivation from within. Instead of being cajoled by others, I have gotten back to more of my "Old Self" that was missing since my injuries. I have also made progress on my weight loss goals.”

  • “My experience with Wings Hypnosis was everything I hoped it would be. I got psychologically stuck in a situation where I had to move homes but I was paralyzed and could not make the decision. After a session with Wings, moving seemed like the logical, easy thing to do. I'd been working with my therapist for ages on this problem and it didn't seem to get any easier. After the hypnosis session, it wasn't a problem anymore!

    Whatever your problem, Wings can surely help you.”

  • “Traci you're a godsend you work wonders thank you.”

  • “The humor approach used by Traci was quite fun!  I also appreciated the use of EFT and waking hypnosis to help eliminate resistance.  It was a fun experience and I feel better having gone through it.”

  • “I visited Traci because I admired the work she is doing and I felt like I was in a dark place.  After sharing some experiences I had in life, Traci was able to make connections of a common pattern of behavior that I was unable to see.  She made me aware of all my negative self talk and helped me begin to change that internal dialogue.  The authenticity, the connection, the humor...Traci made me feel totally at peace and accepted and created this safe space with amazing energy.”

  • “​Smart, down to earth. Listens to your needs and concerns.”

  • “Wonderful, skilled hypnotists who change their clients' lives for the better!”

  • “Amazing center devoted to hypnosis/Hypnotherapy with fun workshops and great people!”

  • “Great results! I wanted to no longer be a slave to nicotine addiction, Doug solved that for me in one sitting! Either Traci or Doug are great, caring individuals ready with the skills to assist you in reaching your goals, too. They offer classes in self hypnosis, among other things, they will provide recordings of  your session, over all extraordinary services for way more than quitting smoking. Update! 1 year later and still smoke free!”

  • “ Perfect timing to have been enlightened by Wings Hypnosis. Traci is absolutely magical.  She allowed me to voice personal issues which I have not been able to share with others.  She helped me see that some of the roles I have been made to play are not necessarily in my nature.  Instead of running away from those roles, she has helped me to better handle the difficulties which come with them. Since the "Come Alive and Thrive" total trance-formation session I have been regularly using the tools she gave me and have been stronger than ever when in the business mode. In other modes, I am finding ways to release which brings much more relief and reduced tension.  I feel myself, my true me, being restored. Most days and some nights I go through the trance session in my head and continue to clear out more troubles.

    The one thing I have not figured out is why ever since my session, I have had the Wizard of Oz songs playing in my head as I traverse through work days.  Got caught a couple times humming "If I only had a brain." when dealing with a co-worker.  I claimed happy song but could not help but laugh at the irony of the moment.  I am finding references to the Wizard of Oz everywhere.

    Next session topic to explore.  :)  Thank you for your true direction, Traci. Be well. “

  • “ Traci Was fabulous! Wonderfully personable, compassionate, and committed to my success. Thank you, Traci! “

  • Traci is a phenomenal, learned, kind, intuitive and competent counselor, and her innate talent for wisely listening and then helping people through stress cannot be matched. Trust her, hire her, and watch your life change for the better. No other counselor, doctor, or friend has been able to help as Traci did- her ability to quickly identify and solve issues is nothing short of miraculous.

    Although at first skeptical and a bit afraid of hypnosis, I now realize that in the hands of a competent professional it can be an invaluable resource for healing.

    The comfort of healing went beyond my expectations- fear not, take a leap, and you will land gently in the arms of a compassionate and competent woman who will guide you toward hope with her incandescent spirit, and a sincere concern to help you heal all issues.

    Thank you for everything, and for sending me forward as a better person.

  • Traci has really helped me fix areas of my life in just one session, and these were areas that have affected me for decades. Traci has a unique way of quickly uncovering the root problem often using humor. Traci has a special gift of what she does. I was reluctant to use hypnosis at first, however, after working with Traci, it's not the typical practice you think of when you hear hypnosis. In my experience, Traci somehow makes the connection of the root cause which comes from the subconscious. I have even tried counseling for a few years which was an ongoing waste of time with no solutions just making me feel worse by reliving the past..You will find immediate results with Traci in just one session. I often time joke that going to Traci is like Christmas and asking for what I want changed, I get in a session.. Traci is very professional and intelligent. She continues to develop her skill with varying workshops. Your session with Traci will be a safe, pleasant experience. I wish you all success in finding the best version of yourself wirh Traci. Love and blessings ❤

As you can imagine, I get some fucked up requests

Before reaching out to me, please inform yourself of the types of sessions I do not do.

I am a Professional, Certified Hypnotist and Hypnotherapist.

I'm a member of several professional organizations.

I teach other hypnotists and therapists how to do what I do. 

 I do not accept some sessions because they would either jeopardize my standing in the professional Hypnosis community, don't interest me, they're illegal, and/or would bore the living fuck out of me. 

Due to the unique nature of what I do, anyone seeking my Erotic Hypnotherapy / Sex Hypnotherapy inquiries must go meet with me for a consultation before being accepted as a client.

There is a non-refundable charge for the 60-minute consultation. Should we choose to work with each other, you can apply the fee toward your sessions.

Sessions I do not accept…

  • I do not do any session that involves nudity, masturbation, or sex acts.

  • I do not do any Femme Domme Hypnosis sessions where I am your Mistress, Dominant, or Top.

  • I do not do any session where I am your submissive, slave, or bottom.

  • I do not do sessions where I hypnotize you to fall in love with me.

  • I do not do sessions involving any "hypnotic amnesia," where you're made to forget about someone or something that happened to you.

  • I do not do free sessions in exchange for "service."

  • I do not do actual or imagined sessions that involve fantasy role-play with children and animals.

  • I do not do sessions that involve harm, whether it be temporary or permanent, to yourself, other people, children, and/or animals.

  • I do not do sessions that involve incest, even if everyone is of legal age.

  • I do not do sessions that involve violence, temporary or permanent mutilation, or physical damage to yourself, other people, children, and/or animals.

  • I do not do sessions that involve self-mutilation and/or suffocation or any other type of session that could bring you or someone else to the brink of death.

  • I do not do sessions that involve playing with or ingesting blood, urine, and/or poop, real or imagined.

  • I do not do sessions where I hypnotize people to give myself or others money on command, aka financial domination.

  • I do not do sessions where you are programmed to completely give up your control and decision-making abilities to me or anyone else.

  • I do not hypnotize owned slaves or submissives in a D/s for anything BDSM related unless I have personally interviewed AND obtained written consent from their Owner(s).

  • I do not do sessions teaching you how to make your wife/spouse/partner fall in love with you.

  • I do not do any session where I am asked to avoid practicing SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), and PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink).

To summarize...

if you have a legitimate erotic issue you'd like to work on to become the next best version of yourself, I will consider taking on your case.  If you are looking for someone to role-play with or watch you jerk off, you will not be my client.

Clients who try to "switch gears" mid-session will be automatically terminated without a refund.

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